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推荐" Thinking parent, thinking child"

 
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(官儿做大了,保持廉洁哦)
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帖子发表于: 星期一 三月 10, 2008 9:41 pm    发表主题: 推荐" Thinking parent, thinking child" 引用并回复

The book is very good, we all need a positive way to deal daily conflicts with kids.

Just finish the first charpter, hope to write a summary later.
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酷我!I made it!
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帖子发表于: 星期五 三月 14, 2008 8:35 am    发表主题: 引用并回复

This book is a guide about how to understand kids, how to stop their bad habits and develop good relationship and responsible behaviors.

I wish I read it more early, but it is still not too late to read.

I see all the common issues about kids, like frustration and whining of their lose, not listening, or understanding. In this book, it teaches me that sometimes it is because we don't understand kids and don't find the root reason so we never could stop their bad behaviros. Punishment and giving up are bad approach. We need to guide our kids to see things differently and help them understand what is important in their life and what is the good behaviors.
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帖子发表于: 星期五 三月 14, 2008 10:06 am    发表主题: 引用并回复

Here is the word from the book:

We must prepare our children for the tests of life, not a life of tests.
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二品总督
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帖子发表于: 星期五 三月 21, 2008 8:26 am    发表主题: 引用并回复

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We must prepare our children for the tests of life, not a life of tests.


The first step is to get your children thinking for themselves.

Parenting professor Myrna Shure uses a drill called "dialoguing" that allows parents to teach and learn the skills of problem-solving at the same time. In her view, "dialoguing is a two-way conversation that involves the child so he/she has to listen."

For example, in the case of grabbing a toy from one another:

What happened when you grabbed the truck? ("He hit me.")

How do you think he feels when you grab toys? ("Mad.")

How did it make you feel when he hit you? ("Hurt and mad.")

Shure says this way of tapping feelings sends the children involved an important message: you care about how the conflict feels to both children before delving into the guts of the problem.
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帖子发表于: 星期六 六月 07, 2008 7:57 pm    发表主题: 引用并回复

谢谢推荐,从图书馆把相关的三本都借来了。觉得看这些书本身就是件积极的事,其实碰到孩子的事能够停下来想一想该怎么处理就已经是很大的进步了,很多时候,心一急,气一上来,就不考虑后果了。看了怎么parenting的书,已经耐心了很多。
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(又一个不小心,升了!)
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帖子发表于: 星期二 六月 10, 2008 8:04 am    发表主题: 引用并回复

glad to know so many parents are learning.Actually every parent need to learn parenting .That will benefit the kids and the parents.It is a win-win situation. Very Happy
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