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熏衣草[我还没有昵称] 熏衣草作品集 六品通判 (官儿做大了,保持廉洁哦)
注册时间: 2004-06-09 帖子: 125
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发表于: 星期一 三月 10, 2008 9:41 pm 发表主题: 推荐" Thinking parent, thinking child" |
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The book is very good, we all need a positive way to deal daily conflicts with kids.
Just finish the first charpter, hope to write a summary later. |
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星子[ANNA] 星子作品集 酷我!I made it!
注册时间: 2004-06-05 帖子: 13192 来自: Toronto
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发表于: 星期五 三月 14, 2008 8:35 am 发表主题: |
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This book is a guide about how to understand kids, how to stop their bad habits and develop good relationship and responsible behaviors.
I wish I read it more early, but it is still not too late to read.
I see all the common issues about kids, like frustration and whining of their lose, not listening, or understanding. In this book, it teaches me that sometimes it is because we don't understand kids and don't find the root reason so we never could stop their bad behaviros. Punishment and giving up are bad approach. We need to guide our kids to see things differently and help them understand what is important in their life and what is the good behaviors. _________________
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星子[ANNA] 星子作品集 酷我!I made it!
注册时间: 2004-06-05 帖子: 13192 来自: Toronto
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发表于: 星期五 三月 14, 2008 10:06 am 发表主题: |
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Here is the word from the book:
We must prepare our children for the tests of life, not a life of tests. _________________
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ericcoliu[ericcoliu] ericcoliu作品集 二品总督 (刚入二品,小心做人)
注册时间: 2007-05-29 帖子: 1393 来自: GTA, Canada
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发表于: 星期五 三月 21, 2008 8:26 am 发表主题: |
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We must prepare our children for the tests of life, not a life of tests.
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The first step is to get your children thinking for themselves.
Parenting professor Myrna Shure uses a drill called "dialoguing" that allows parents to teach and learn the skills of problem-solving at the same time. In her view, "dialoguing is a two-way conversation that involves the child so he/she has to listen."
For example, in the case of grabbing a toy from one another:
What happened when you grabbed the truck? ("He hit me.")
How do you think he feels when you grab toys? ("Mad.")
How did it make you feel when he hit you? ("Hurt and mad.")
Shure says this way of tapping feelings sends the children involved an important message: you care about how the conflict feels to both children before delving into the guts of the problem. _________________ Time is nothing but a disquiet of the soul |
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lemonade[柠檬水] lemonade作品集 秀才 (恭喜您迈出害羞的第一步!)
注册时间: 2008-05-24 帖子: 3
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发表于: 星期六 六月 07, 2008 7:57 pm 发表主题: |
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谢谢推荐,从图书馆把相关的三本都借来了。觉得看这些书本身就是件积极的事,其实碰到孩子的事能够停下来想一想该怎么处理就已经是很大的进步了,很多时候,心一急,气一上来,就不考虑后果了。看了怎么parenting的书,已经耐心了很多。 |
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棒冰摊主[你侬我侬泥水匠] 棒冰摊主作品集 八品县丞 (又一个不小心,升了!)
注册时间: 2008-04-24 帖子: 67 来自: 冰棒批发部
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发表于: 星期二 六月 10, 2008 8:04 am 发表主题: |
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glad to know so many parents are learning.Actually every parent need to learn parenting .That will benefit the kids and the parents.It is a win-win situation. _________________ http://blog.sina.com.cn/wufang2000 |
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